gentleness
- Betsy Greene Schaefer
- Feb 6, 2017
- 1 min read
Updated: Apr 14, 2021

gentleness is the key
we are looking for
doesn't seem like it, does it?
seems like we need to be hard
to fight
but to fight is tight
tight doesn't let in love
we want love
that's what we want right?
and love is gentle
gentleness is soft
weightless
what is it to be gentle?
to become soft
and weightless
you have to slow down
you have to risk letting go of the tightness
which seems to keep all your parts from just falling on the ground
to keep you from falling apart
it seems to keep your world clinking together
come on...
slow down a little
just let it go
and try breathing some space
into the tight places
the breath comes in
expands
and
goes out
dissolves
let that layer of tightness go
and see if you find yourself up against the next one
the next level of tightness you didn’t even know was there
now breathe softly into that level
and breathe out to dissolve
and release
more space
more gentle
breathe your way down
down
down
to gentle
and then the door will open
look down and see
you are the sweet babe lying in your own arms.
look down at you there
look down into your own innocent throbbing heart
what could you have done?
Look down into the light of your eyes
there’s a smile on your face
your sweet heart.
do you see?
do you see how it’s impossible to judge
anything which comes from this babe?
this sweet babe
in your arms
open your chest to the softness of your inner heart
the dear child waits
for you to see
only for you, really
it's no one else now.
only you
waiting for you to bestow
the gentleness of your love.

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